When Someone Doesn’t Like You

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By Marcelina Hardy

Most people can’t deal with knowing someone doesn’t like them. They feel defensive, sad, and sometimes, angry. They don’t understand why that person doesn’t like them, and they will hold on to that feeling for a long time.

Why do people feel the need to hold on to such negative emotions?

It’s because they are not happy with themselves, and they are being called out on it.

When someone doesn’t like you, it’s natural to start thinking of all the reasons why they must not like you.

If you’re the type of person to attack yourself, you’ll immediately look at yourself to criticize everything you don’t like about yourself, no matter if it’s not what that person doesn’t like about you.

If you’re the type of person that likes to point fingers, you may start to find every single thing wrong with the other person. You might also think of all the ways you are better than that person that doesn’t like you. You just can’t feel less than the person that doesn’t like you, because then that person is right.

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Are You Ruining Your Relationship?

By Ruth Purple

Most of us would like to believe that when a love affair ends, it was because of the other party. Well, this isn’t usually the case. Taking an insight on what you have contributed to the downfall of your love affair is the first step in saving your relationship. Keep in mind that blaming others will only aggravate the problem, but taking self- accountability is the first step on how to save your a relationship.

Here are some signs that you are ruining your relationship.

1. Being loud and aggressive when making a point.

Keep in mind that the louder you get in making a point, the more your partner can’t hear you.

When you make an effort to raise your voice, you tend to forget the words you are trying to send making the whole scenario more chaotic and off the course.

Raising your voice when making a point is ruining your relationship, because when you’re loud and aggressive, and when you and your partner are emotional, it’s hard to come up with a solution.

Another point why being loud in making a point is ruining your relationship is because whatever you say might be dismissed as too emotional, rather than a rational point.

Solution:

The first thing that you should do is be aware of your volume. Other couples send signals or give reminders when one partner is beginning to be loud. Others take a deep breath when the intensity of the discussion starts to become heavy, while others leave the room and cool- off and return when the temperament is all calm.

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The Benefits of Being a Good Listener

By Remez Sasson

A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while he knows something.
- Wilson Mizner

Do you dominate the conversation or do you let other people talk too? There are a lot of people who like to talk about themselves, about what they have done and about what they have not done, about their health, ideas, etc. They hardly let other people open their mouths.

People get pleasure from speaking about themselves, but if they always speak about their achievements or their problems, people will get fed up with their egoism and will avoid them.

Conversation is a two-way activity. A person, who dominates the conversation, might feel good about it, because he or she attracts all the attention, but he or she might be avoided the next time.

If we are willing and able to listen to others, we will gain a lot:

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Quotes on Love

A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults.
Charles Kingsley

The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but to hold hands.
Alexandra Penney

Love is the only thing you get more of by giving it away.
Tom Wilson

Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.
Peter Ustinov

A baby is born with a need to be loved – and never outgrows it.
Frank A. Clark

Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.
Barbara De Angelis

Love’s gift cannot be given, it waits to be accepted.
Rabindranath Tagore

Life without love is like a tree without blossom and fruit.
Kahlil Gibran

More Quotes on Love

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The movie also provides clarity on how her views on self-esteem, abundance, and the metaphysical causes behind physical ailments were developed.

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Being Charismatic and Popular

By Remez Sasson

It is a fact that most people want to be liked. Some people succeed in doing so, and others try to make a good impression, but get the opposite results.

People wish to look charismatic and become popular. It doesn’t always work out, due to low self-esteem and lack of confidence, or being too aggressive and lacking tact.

Being charismatic and easily liked are important in job interviews, in sales, dealing with people or in friendships and relationships.

Here are a few simple tips that can help you more charismatic and popular:

Posture
Pay attention to the way you carry your body. Don’t stoop, shuffle or look listless. Keep your back straight when you walk and when you sit, but don’t overdo it, otherwise it will look artificial.

Eye contact
Don’t be afraid of eye contact when talking, but don’t overdo it, as this might be interrupted as rudeness.

Talking
Don’t talk too fast or too slow. Speak to the point.

Keep your voice quiet, but clear. Apart from having a relaxing influence on the people you are talking with, they will have to pay more attention to what you are saying.

Even if you don’t agree with what someone says, don’t retort in anger. Stay calm, patient and tolerant, and people will respect you more.

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