Being Busy Does Not Equal Being Productive

Being Busy Does Not Equal Being Productive
Article written by Gary Simpson

TimeBeing “busy” can destroy your ability to get things done.

How many people do you know who are so busy being busy that they never seem to get anything worthwhile done? Does that describe you, maybe even just a little bit?
 
Being busy all the time, through necessity, is a curse. Being busy all the time, for the sake of it, is madness.

Continual busy-ness eventually leads to stress, particularly if results are minimal. You see, it will get to a point where something has to give way. It’s like filling a balloon with air. Eventually no more air will fit inside the balloon and it will do the only thing it can. It will burst.

It’s OK to have busy periods through each day, each week, each month and each year. However, you also need time to relax. Time to re-charge the batteries.

People who are continuously busy over long periods suffer from two main problems:

  1. - they have difficulty saying “no” to anyone
  2. - they have difficulty delegating tasks to others

Let’s look at each in turn.

First, those who cannot say “no.” I have a saying: “You can’t save the entire world.” No matter how good your intentions are, you cannot be everything to everyone.

Make a list of those who need and deserve your time. They are the one’s you should give priority to. Anyone else comes next – if you have the time to spare.

A wise man once said, “work always expands to fit available time.” It’s true. But it is only true if you allow it to happen.

You can always do the odd favor for someone on the odd occasion. Learn to say no in a nice way. Here is one such way: “If I get all my own work done, I will consider your request.” What does that really say? It says your work is important. If you get it done you will help. Naturally, if you cannot get it done you cannot help. It’s a soft way of saying no. Usually the asker will then go and find another person to ask.

By saying no you actually help other people to grow. Imagine if you always said yes to tying up your daughter’s shoe laces. If you never said no she would still be asking you to do it at twenty years of age. By saying no you make her learn to do it for herself. Remember the old saying about giving a hungry person a fish to eat versus teaching the hungry person how to catch their own fish to eat?

By saying no we can free up more time for ourselves and those who need or deserve our time the most. Do not become a slave.

Turning to the second problem, delegation – learn to enlist others to perform tasks that they are better equipped, or have more time, to do.

If you run all over the place attempting to do everything yourself you will never have sufficient time to do anything properly. Delegation is the art of a true leader. The secret to successful delegation is to build the importance of the task into the mind of the person you are delegating it to. Then, when they do it, thank them and praise them sincerely for the things they did well.

Don’t ever think you are irreplaceable, particularly at your employment. Somebody gave me a definition once of irreplaceability in the workforce. It went something like this: “Get a bucket of water, roll up your sleeve and thrust your arm into the water. Now pull your arm out. The time it takes for the water to settle back into position will be about the same time it will take to replace you!”

Learning to say no and being able to delegate will allow you to perform the tasks you really want to do and really need to do yourself at a much higher level of proficiency.

AL Williams wrote a book called “All You Can Do is All You Can Do But All You Can Do is Enough!” (ISBN: 0-8041-0499-9). Catchy title, isn’t it?

In his book, Williams says: “Don’t worry about things you can’t change. Focus on making your part of the world better, because when they click your lights out for the last time, you can’t have any regrets.”

Like I said earlier – you can’t save the whole world. Don’t even try.

If you want to be more productive, try to re-organize the way you plan your time. You can do this by:

  1. - making a list of things requiring your attention
  2. - prioritizing the list
  3. - doing essential things first, non-essential things last
  4. - after every third task, rewarding yourself in some small way
  5. - continue to work your way through the list in sets of three

At the end of the day review your list. This is important because it will allow you to see how much you have done and achieved. Achievement will drive you forward to more achievement.

So, now you don’t have to be busy, busy, busy and get little done. You can just be busy achieving what you want.

The Author
Gary Simpson is a 7th Dan karate master who teaches self defense, motivation, self help and wealth building to students around the world through home study courses.
Visit his web site MotivationSelfEsteem.com

A Simple Audible Way to Achieve Time Management Skills

By Jillian Gregory

Time ManagementDo you always feel a step behind in life? Do you wish you could find more time? Do you have trouble accomplishing all the goals and errands you have each day? Ineffective time management can be a frustrating plague that envelops your life. You feel like you have lost control over your circumstances. This frustration can hurt your relationships, career, and overall health. Achieve time management skills by listening to audio books on the subject. Taking the time to listen to advice from time management professionals can help alleviate the harmful stress of constantly feeling crunched for time.

One of the most efficient ways to improve your time management skills is to base your life activities on a successful time management model. You will be hard pressed to find a time management expert that was born with perfect time management skills. They had to learn the coping skills that helped them to get on track. They are professionals and face the same emotional, mental, and physical demands in their life that you face everyday. Many of them have families and careers that pull for their attention. Therefore, they understand how unproductive time management can negatively affect your life.

You are probably wondering how you will find the time to listen to these audio learning resources when you can’t even finish your present daily chores. The key is to listen while you are doing some of those daily chores. You can listen while driving to the grocery store or cleaning your house. Work through the audio books whenever you have a moment to spare or if you are engaging in menial everyday tasks such as folding the laundry.

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How to Find and Enjoy Time for Yourself

By Remez Sasson

time=for=yourselfAre you be in a constant state of rushing?
 
Are you so busy that you hardly find the time to breathe?

Do you try to do too many things at the same time?

Do you feel the weight of the Universe on your shoulders?

Does your work or family take all of your time?

This situation may lead to stress, tension, broken relationships and unhappiness.

Do you remember the times you were a small child, free from responsibilities, work or other engagements? You had all the time in the world just to play or do nothing. Even as a grown up, you deserve some time for yourself.

You deserve some time for yourself every day. You need some time to be alone, to do something you love, or even do nothing. You need a little time to forget your chores, tasks, work and even goals.

With just a little effort you can find the time to be alone, no matter what your life circumstances are. It is strange that people have lost their ability to enjoy being alone. They got used to noise, rush and stress, and find it hard to relax and be by themselves, even for a little while, but this ability can be relearned.

You need to set aside time, preferably everyday, just for yourself. Even 20 minutes a day will do.

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Importance of Time Management

By Remez Sasson

What is time management?
It is a set of principles, practices, skills, tools and systems that help you use your time to accomplish what you want.

Why is time management important?

Time management is important for your personal life and career success. It teaches you how to manage your time effectively and make the most of it.

Here are a few of the reasons why it is so important, and how it can help you use and manage your time more advantageously:

1. Time is a special resource that you cannot store or save for later use. Everyone has the exact same amount of time each day. Time not well used cannot be retrieved.

2. Most people feel like they have too much to do and not enough time. They blame lack of time for their poor finances, unachieved goals, stress, bad relationships and not exercising their body. Wise time management can help you find the time for what you desire to do or need to do.

3. You need time to get what you want out of life. If you wait for extra time to appear, you might lose the game of life. Through right time management, you can “create” the time you need, and not just wait for it to come. By planning your time wisely, you will have more time to do more things.

4. Time management will help you set up your priorities.

5. Time is limited to 24 hours a day, so plan your life wisely.

6. Time management helps you make conscious choices, so you can spend more of your time doing things that are important and valuable to you.

7. You can learn to find the time for the things that are important to you. Even a small amount of time once a day, or even once a week, will take you closer to your goals, and you will be surprised at the progress you make.

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Time Management Quotes

Time management is important if you wish to make the most of your life and time. I have collected a few quotes on time management, which you might find useful.

Quotes on time management:

Until you value yourself, you will not value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it.
~ M. Scott Peck

Lost wealth may be replaced by industry, lost knowledge by study, lost health by temperance or medicine, but lost time is gone forever.
~ Samuel Smiles

When we are doing what we love, we don’t care about time. For at least at that moment, time doesn’t exist and we are truly free.
~ Marcia Wieder

Time is the most valuable coin in your life. You and you alone will determine how that coin will be spent. Be careful that you don’t let other people spend it for you.
~ John Dryden

If you haven’t got the time to do it right, when will you find the time to do it over?
~ Jeffery J. Mayer

Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson and Albert Einstein.
~ H. Jackson Brown

The great dividing line between success and failure can be expressed in five words; “I did not have time.”
~ Franklin Field

Don’t wait. The time will never be just right.
~ Napoleon Hill

Decide what you want, decide what you are willing to exchange for it. Establish your priorities and get to work.
~ H.L. Hunt

The time for action is now. It’s never too late to do something.
~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Many people take no care of their money till they come nearly to the end of it, and others do just the same with their time.
~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

You can do so much in 10 minutes’ time. Ten minutes, once gone, are gone for good. Divide your life into 10-minute units and sacrifice as few of them as possible in meaningless activity.
~ Ingvar Kamprad

You must master your time rather than becoming a slave to the constant flow of events and demands on your time. And you must organize your life to achieve balance, harmony, and inner peace.
~ Brian Tracy

Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things that matter least.
~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

All the flowers of all of the tomorrows are in the seeds of today.
~ Chinese Proverb

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