You cannot always change your environment and the events of your life, but you can learn to change your attitude toward them.
A change of attitude changes the way the environment and events affect you. It is always advisable to learn, and to practice, changing your attitude to a more positive one, and also learn to calm down the mind. This has to be done on a regular basis, and not only at the time when there are worries and problems.
You have to train yourself, so you stay positive and calm in difficult times.
Suppose somebody, who doesn’t know to swim, falls into the water, and needs immediate help. You cannot start teaching him how to swim, but if he learned to swim before this event, there would have been no problem. It is the same with being free from anxiety and worry. When in the midst of a difficult time you can use some first aid to keep your head above the water, but to remain peaceful and calm, unaffected by problems and worries, you should have trained yourself before that.
Here are a few simple suggestions:
– Engage in something interesting.
– When worried, try to be busy.
– Never lose hope.
– Analyze your worries: will they help you or waste your time and energy? Do you want them? What are they? They are just thoughts. If you keep thinking them they will grow and get stronger. Do you want that? No matter how difficult it might be, try to focus on solutions, not on problems.
– Visualize yourself free from the problem causing the worry, for example, visualize having a job or money at the bank.
Worry is a state of mind. So is happiness and peace, what do you choose?
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