Lack of Concentration and Focus

People often ask me, what to do to improve their concentration. It seems that lack of concentration is a widespread problem, irrespective of age, gender or country. What people say about lack of concentration: “I try to concentrate, but I soon find myself thinking about something else.” “It is difficult for me to focus my … Continue Reading…

Is the Law Of Attraction Working For You?

Are you attracting what you want in your life now?

With the things that are happening around the world do you feel that you are getting what you want with the law of attracting or are you left out?

Are you attracting the right things?

Do you feel that you are attracting the right things in your life now or things are happening by accident and you do not have any control with what is entering into your life?

What do you want?

Putting the time into the things that you want to attract in your life can save you time and money.

Knowing what you want and for what use can help to attract it.

This type of thinking is like eating, you are creating a want and you are taking the steps to fulfill that need.

Attracting what?

You have attracted many things into your life, so far were they by accident or did you consciously choose to attract them.

Looking at what you have attracted in your life can show you signs of your ability to manifest your reality.

Are you always changing your mind?

Do you find yourself changing your mind often with your projects or other things important in your life because you are afraid of making the wrong choice?

Are you afraid of being judged?

If you did attract what you want in life would others judge you and you are afraid of this?

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How to Keep Your Mind From Wandering

Keep Your Mind From WanderingIt is a habit of the mind to wander. What happens when you sit quietly for a few minutes trying to think about something, or just sit down to relax? Next time you do this, try to watch your mind, and you will discover that it flits around like a butterfly, going from one thought to another.

The mind keeps thinking, worrying, asking questions, answering, giving excuses, telling stories, imagining, creating problems and solving them.

This happens not only while you sit down to relax, but also while working, driving, cooking, eating or doing anything else. This non-stop activity weakens your ability to focus your mind, and as well as interferes with your ability to deal effectively with what you are doing at each moment of the day.

A wandering mind can prevent you from falling asleep, finishing your tasks and work, and completing what you are doing. It also wastes your time and energy, and can be tiring sometimes.

Some people would tell you that if you perform more than one task at a time, you will save time and get more done. This might be true at times, when carrying out automatic tasks that do not require your or attention, but you will get done, and more accurately and efficiently, if you focus on just one thing at a time.

How many times have you tried to do several things at the same time, but ended doing mistakes and then having to correct them? When you focus on one task at a time, you do it more efficiently, easily and quickly. Paying your undivided attention to one subject is a sort of meditation, and this action teaches your mind obedience and discipline. When your mind is obedient and disciplined, it stops wandering, and you are more at peace.

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Do You Finish What You Start? Self Discipline – Perseverance

Do you finish what you start? Do you possess enough inner strength to go through with what you start doing? How many times have you started to do something with enthusiasm and energy, and then lost your enthusiasm and energy after a while? How many times have you made promises to yourselves and to others, … Continue Reading…

Problems with Sending and Receiving Email Messages

Email Messages

Do you have problems with sending and receiving your email messages?

Every now and then, important email messages don’t arrive to their destination, or they go to the email junk folder of the addressee.

This problem is even worse for a business that uses email. What do you think, as a buyer, if you don’t receive an answer to a question, or worst, if you do not receive a download link for a book or software you ordered, or assistance with the download?

There is another problem, and this is when people make a typo error in their email address, use an email address that has been closed, or an email account that its email inbox folder on the server is completely full.

If it is a business having email problems, the visitor or buyer might get angry or be unhappy, and could request a refund. He or she might also complain. The business or company wants to give a good service, but they have a problem they need to solve.

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Less Than Perfect – 5 Ways that Perfectionism Prevents Happiness and Achievement

Would anyone seriously argue with the saying nobody’s perfect ? Of course not. And yet throughout the world millions of otherwise sane and intelligent people saddle themselves with a life principle that dooms them to frustration and constant disappointment – the desire to do things perfectly.

You could argue that setting such high standards is good for you, leading naturally to always being at your best. Many people do just that with proud statements like: oh yes, I’m a bit of a perfectionist – achieving anything but the absolute best is failure in my book.

But here’s the perfectionist paradox – as a perfectionist you can simultaneously hold feelings of moral superiority because of the high standards you’ve set yourself, and inferiority because you never meet those standards. Far from leading to happiness and achievement such attitudes are instead deeply negative.

Here are five reasons why:

1. It leads to a constant sense of failure.

Perfection is a vanishingly rare occurrence and perfectionists tend to focus on the flaws rather than the achievement. So no matter how well a task is done, there is always a sense of failure that it wasn’t done even better. An example is the golfer who hits a stunning shot to within a few feet of the pin but feels disappointed with himself for not getting it even closer.

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Affirmations for Money

By Remez Sasson

Affirmations for MoneyPeople keep asking me about affirmations, and how to use them. Some of the questions are about affirmations for money.

Here is a typical question:
“I want to affirm for money. Can I use the affirmation – I am making 100,000.- dollars every month -?”

You can use any affirmation you want, but you have to believe that what you are affirming can happen, and be willing to do whatever it requires to make it come true.

To make your affirmation work:

  • You need to be practical.
  • Use your common sense.
  • You should also be willing to take action when necessary, see and grab opportunities, and not remain passive, waiting for the money to come.

Affirmations motivate, energize, and open your mind and eyes to see opportunities that otherwise you wouldn’t have seen.

If you choose to repeat the above mentioned affirmation, ask yourself, whether you are feeling comfortable with this amount of money. Think whether you can handle it. Think whether you are willing to make changes in your life, which you might be required to do to make the affirmation come true.

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Can You Improve Your Life?

Can you improve your life?

Can you achieve success?

Do all the books, courses, webinars and workshops on self-improvement, personal growth and on success really help?

Yes, they do help, but not always, and not all people benefit from them equally.

Do you spend a lot of money on books courses and workshops, but nothing changes in your life, nothing improves in your life?

So why is that?

Let me ask you, do you really and truly want to make changes in your life?

Would you do anything to achieve the success you want?

Would you invest time and money in study, research and the necessary actions to improve your life or achieve your dreams?

  • Most people have dreams, but back in their mind, deep in their subconscious mind, they do not really want their dreams to come true. They are afraid of the changes in their life that the achievement of their dream might lead to, and in a subconscious way resist the changes, postpone them or refuse to take action.
  • There are people who feel they do not deserve to better their life.
  • Other people are deep in negative thinking.
  • People love the familiar and afraid of the new.
  • People have dreams, but are afraid to follow their dreams.

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Acting in The Certain Way

Excerpt from The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles

Thought is the creative power or the impelling force which causes the creative power to act. Thinking in a certain way will bring riches to you, but you must not rely upon thought alone, paying no attention to personal action. That is the rock upon which many otherwise scientific thinkers meet shipwreck – the failure to connect thought with personal action.

We have not yet reached the stage of development, even supposing such a stage to be possible, in which a person can create directly from formless substance without nature’s processes or the work of human hands. A person must not only think, but his personal action must supplement his thought. By thought you can cause the gold in the hearts of the mountains to be impelled toward you, but it will not mine itself, refine itself, coin itself into double eagles, and come rolling along the roads, seeking its way into your pocket.

Under the impelling power of the supreme spirit, people’s affairs will be so ordered that someone will be led to mine the gold for you. Other people’s business transactions will be so directed that the gold will be brought toward you. And you must so arrange your own business affairs that you may be able to receive it when it comes to you. Your thought makes all things, animate and inanimate, work to bring you what you want, but your personal activity must be such that you can rightly receive what you want when it reaches you. You are not to take it as charity, nor to steal it. You must give every man more in use value than he gives you in cash value.

The scientific use of thought consists in forming a clear and distinct mental image of what you want, in holding fast to your purpose to get what you want, and in realizing with grateful faith that you do get what you want.

Your faith and purpose positively impress your vision upon formless substance, which has the same desire for more life that you have, and this vision, received from you, sets all the creative forces at work in and through their regular channels of action, but directed toward you.

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Seven Rituals to Improve Life and Business

What do Valentine’s Day, Christmas, dating, dinner and a movie, marriage and couples have in common? Rituals. A ritual is defined as ‘any method of doing something in which the details are always faithfully repeated.’ To relate this to your life, rituals include: the time you wake up, how your brush your teeth, the route you take to work – you get the idea.

Rituals give life meaning and help us celebrate milestones in our lives. They offer security, stability and routine and a sense of calmness to an otherwise chaotic existence. Rituals date back thousands of years with the ancient Egyptians. Theirs was a culture seeped in traditions. Eating, drinking, bathing, hunting and burying the dead were a succession of rituals.

Over centuries, mankind lost the importance of rites. However, many of us in the 21st century are reconsidering traditions and adding them to our lives as we desperately seek meaning during this increasingly shallow and disconnected time.

If you want to relax, enjoy your life and feel more connected to others, consider adding rituals to your life.

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