How can I remain positive, happy and motivated with a negative spouse and being surrounded by other negative people as well?

Here are some things, which can help you to be positive with a negative spouse:

1. Do not take the negativity personally.

2. Always remember that the negativity is your spouse's problem, not yours.

3. If your spouse rejects your offers of help, don't over react.

4. Spend time with positive folks. You will need some time off from your spouse's negativity.

5. Invite your spouse to take a walk with you at least once a week.

6. Don't be afraid to say "Enough!" and change the subject to something more positive.

7. Be open to seeking professional help.

These things may also help you, making your spouse think positive.

(08-25-2011 05:28 PM)lizzie Wrote:  How can I remain positive, happy and motivated with a negative spouse and being surrounded by other negative people as well?

Try allowing to be who they are while remaining positive, happy, and loving toward them.

The happier, more positive, and loving you are toward your spouse without trying to change them the sooner she/he will change to being happy, positive and loving toward you.

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Demonstrate how your life has changed by just being happier, more upbeat, less stressed … and soon your partner may want to know what it is that has changed you and how he can he/she get some of it!

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