In order to lead a happy life forever, you have to transform your personality.

This is how you'll stop making mistakes and become a wise human being.

You must control your behavior, so that you may get what you want out of life. Otherwise, you’ll make many mistakes and suffer with their consequences. Happiness is not a simple matter.

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In order to lead a happy life you don’t need to change your personality. See the beauty in the dark and know how to utilize your traits and talents.

(06-29-2011 11:16 AM)dan1 Wrote:  In order to lead a happy life you don’t need to change your personality. See the beauty in the dark and know how to utilize your traits and talents.

You cannot be happy if you keep making mistakes in life. You must learn how to evolve and do only what will help you succeed.

In order to lead a happier life, you must realize who you are. Ask yourself what are your strengths and weaknesses.

Now that you know who you are, you can began to improve yourself with strengthening your weaknesses, ultimately making you a happier person

(06-29-2011 08:48 PM)chrissponias Wrote:  You cannot be happy if you keep making mistakes in life. You must learn how to evolve and do only what will help you succeed.

That is true. But evolve, not change.. use the gifts and possibilities your personality offer.

(07-14-2011 10:21 PM)dan1 Wrote:  

(06-29-2011 08:48 PM)chrissponias Wrote:  You cannot be happy if you keep making mistakes in life. You must learn how to evolve and do only what will help you succeed.

That is true. But evolve, not change.. use the gifts and possibilities your personality offer.

Sometimes your mistake can become finnier think for others; so think like that..Because of your mistake some one get some piece of smile..
We do the mistake; nobody is perfect.So don't be sad..

I dont believe in that philosophy that you need to change your personality to live a happy life. I believe one should embrace their personality while choosing to be happy with who they are.


Happiness is a choice. You choice to be happy or not to be happy. You can only experience one emotion at a time.

(08-25-2011 07:20 AM)janicelou Wrote:  I dont believe in that philosophy that you need to change your personality to live a happy life. I believe one should embrace their personality while choosing to be happy with who they are.


Happiness is a choice. You choice to be happy or not to be happy. You can only experience one emotion at a time.

I believe we create our own happiness and many of us have had our happiness created under someone elses beliefs.These were instilled for so many of our formative years.I believe we need to peel away the beliefs of the ones who influenced us while growing up to get down to who's and what is really ours.Then the real process starts in hearing and more importantly listening to our inner guidance .Ist not something we can ever do until we realize that most of what makes us unhappy is other peoples stuff!

(08-25-2011 07:20 AM)janicelou Wrote:  I dont believe in that philosophy that you need to change your personality to live a happy life. I believe one should embrace their personality while choosing to be happy with who they are.


Happiness is a choice. You choice to be happy or not to be happy. You can only experience one emotion at a time.

I agree with janicelou. Happiness is a choice and one should embrace their personality, who you are, while choosing and making the decision to be happy with You.

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Hello everyone, another newbie, here to learn and share with all of you. Great post @Janicelou,@Positive_Abe,@chrissponias,@dan1,@mlj2577(great quote),@Magda.

Happiness is more than a choice its a feeling of being happy. One's personality reflects how they feel about themselves.

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(09-05-2011 10:13 PM)Positive_Abe Wrote:  

(08-25-2011 07:20 AM)janicelou Wrote:  I dont believe in that philosophy that you need to change your personality to live a happy life. I believe one should embrace their personality while choosing to be happy with who they are.


Happiness is a choice. You choice to be happy or not to be happy. You can only experience one emotion at a time.

I agree with janicelou. Happiness is a choice and one should embrace their personality, who you are, while choosing and making the decision to be happy with You.

...Hi everybody! I am new here & this is my first post

That's very helpful. Thanks for sharing.

Happiness is recognition that hapiness exists in spite of what I do.Happiness exists in spite of the result of my attempts to be happy. Happiness is like... congratulations you have occured and you didn't have to earn that occurence. The sensation of being is happiness.

Happiness is recognition that hapiness exists in spite of what I do.Happiness exists in spite of the result of my attempts to be happy. Happiness is like... congratulations you have occured and you didn't have to earn that occurence. The sensation of being is happiness.

Happiness is relative, most people in this country at this time live like kings did just a few centuries ago. The key is to have gratitude for what you have. There's a quote that sums it up nicely - "success is getting what you want, happiness is wanting what you get".

I think that we sometimes try to control life to much and this is what actually leads to discontent in life. Pursuing your interests, taking action on a daily basis, and loving the life you have, that to me is how you live life to the fullest. That to me is part of what you need to do in order to live a happy life.

Trying to control how things go in life is going to lead to disappointment when they don't go as expected. That is also a good point to bring up. Having expections, or expecting that things will go a certain way "because they should", is setting yourself up for more disappointment.


The best thing to do is to decide what you want in life, understand that things may not go as desired, and accept how things turn out and learn from them. In doing so you will help improve your odds of accomplishing a goal faster for the next go around.