Why You Are not Getting Results from Self Improvement Techniques
By Remez Sasson
Do you sometimes, hear yourself or other people say, I have tried positive thinking, and I have repeated affirmations, I have meditated, and yet nothing happened?
Do you often wonder why you are not getting results for your efforts when following various self improvement techniques?
The fact is that few people use self-improvement and positive thinking techniques correctly, and fewer still do so earnestly and wholeheartedly.
Why You Are not Getting results?
You might start enthusiastically making affirmations for a few days, waiting for miracles to happen, but nothing spectacular happens. This makes you lose your enthusiasm and any confidence you had, get disappointed, and stop affirming.
You might start visualizing a certain goal, but when after a few days nothing happens, you lose your faith and stop visualizing.
Maybe you have begun to meditate, but after a week or two you did not experience any altered state of consciousness. This made you conclude that meditation is just a waste of time.
Self-improvement and positive thinking methods work and bring results, but only if they are used correctly.
You cannot construct a building, a bridge or an airplane, without the proper knowledge, training and preparation, and following instructions and rules. Self-improvement and positive thinking methods should be approached in the same manner. You need to know how to use these techniques.
It is not enough to say for a few moments, "I am achieving my goal, I am happy and I have plenty money", and then revert to negative thinking and to worrying. You get no instant results when you repeat a few positive words for a few moments.
How can you expect to accomplish anything by visualizing it, if at the same time you worry, and have doubts about your ability to get what you are visualizing?
How can you get any positive results if you sit for meditation, but instead of meditating you think about all kinds of irrelevant matters?
How to Get Results from Self Improvement Techniques?
- To get results, you need to invest time and effort in these techniques, and follow them with interest and the desire to succeed.
- Success comes only if you fully and wholeheartedly desire what you are affirming or visualizing, and focus on the task.
- In order to get results, you need to show interest and earnestness, and to do your best.
- Your inner vision should be strong enough to propel you forward, no matter how negative your current situation is, and despite any failures you might experience.
- If you think, visualize, affirm or meditate for a few minutes, and then for the rest of the day think negatively, you neutralize or destroy all your positive thoughts, mental images and affirmations.
Self improvement techniques and positive thinking work and bring results, if you are determined to succeed, follow the instructions correctly, persevere, and do not let lack of faith, laziness and procrastination stand in your way. You need to give these methods time to work.
If you practice them as an unpleasant task, with no attention and concentration, how do you expect them to work? Be willing to devote time, energy and effort, where and when necessary. Success in self-improvement and positive thinking methods requires that you become involved, motivated and be willing to give them enough time to bring results.
Sometimes, things happen in such a way that you could label them as miracles, but most of the time, things happen in a more natural and gradual way. Inner changes will start to manifest, and will lead to outer change. Doors will open, people will help, circumstances and situations will change, and new constructive ideas will come up, all of which will bring the desired changes and improvements.