Emotional detachment used in the right way, is an important skill, which can help you become free from stress and worries, and enjoy inner peace.
The emotional detachment I am talking about is a state of calmness, of not taking things personally, and of remaining calm and relaxed in difficult situations, and in the presence of difficult people.
Emotional detachment means letting go.
Emotional detachment is actually, the ability to let go. It means letting go of the past, of fears, worries, and negative thoughts. Letting go of everything that disturbs your mind and your feelings.
If you have read the articles I have written about emotional detachment, and especially if you read my book about this topic, you would have discovered that I am talking about a positive and useful skill.
With the right approach and the right degree of emotional detachment, it turns into a useful and positive skill.
What are the benefits of emotional detachment, and what would you gain if you develop it? Read on, and you will find out.
You might have a few reservations about it, thinking that it might make you indifferent and numb your feelings. The truth is that it would not. It would make you more at peace with yourself and the with world. As strange as it might seem, you can display detachment, and at the same time be loving, kind and friendly, and live an active and busy life.
What Are the Benefits of Emotional Detachment?
Emotional detachment has it positive aspects. It is a skill and attitude, which enables you to react calmly to people and to situations, without losing your composure. It also enables you control your reactions, and stay relaxed and undisturbed by what people say or do.
Emotional detachment enables you to protect your mind and feelings from stressful people and stressful situations, and not to take things personally.
Another important benefit is the ability to let go of the past, of painful memories and from anger.
With emotional detachment, you put boundaries between you and difficult, unpleasant or demanding people, and this helps you enjoy calmness and inner peace when you are in their company.
This behavior and state of mind, makes it possible to be more efficient and more practical in your daily life.
Emotional detachment is not a state of indifference, avoiding people, or the inability to communicate with people.
It also does not mean lack of interest or lack of feelings. People, who are indifferent, do not care about anything, and are usually passive. True detachment is something else. It is an attitude of common sense, open-mindedness and practical behavior.
Emotional detachment is a skill that protects you from other people’s disturbing and agitated thoughts and feelings. You can be loving, happy, friendly and enjoy life, and at the same time able to display detachment whenever it is necessary.
As you see, there are many benefits to emotional detachment. With a little training, you will be able to manifest it at will, whenever you choose to do so.
“There’s an important difference between giving up and letting go.”
– Jessica Hatchigan
“Forget what hurt you but never forget what it taught you.”
– Shannon L. Alder
“Holding on is believing that there’s only a past; letting go is knowing that there’s a future.”
– Daphne Rose Kingma