One of the most significant mental tools for finding love is BELIEVING that your wish to find love is going to come true.
Believe that you are going to find your soulmate, even if you have been disappointed so many times in the past.
Believe that you are going to find love and be happy with your soulmate, even if your current reality shows exactly the opposite.
In spite of lousy dates, horrible experiences and endless boring dates, keep believing that true love awaits you.
An Amazing Story about Belief
I would like to share with you an amazing story on this topic.
In a big region in Africa, there was a drought, which had a destructive impact on the fields, animals and all the people of the region.
People saw no way out of that awful drought, and felt desperate and hopeless. As a last resort, the elderly people of the tribes decided to meet and figure out together how to handle that horrible situation.
At the gathering, one old man said, “Let’s all meet tomorrow at dawn, at the bottom of our Holy Mountain, and then climb to the top of the mountain and pray for rain.”
All the people thought that it was a good idea, and early next morning, hundreds of people came to the bottom of the Holy Mountain.
Among the people who came to pray for rain, was a young boy with an umbrella in his hand.
People looked at him and giggled. “Why did you bring the umbrella?” they asked.
“Aren’t we praying for rain?” asked the boy, “I want to be ready when it starts falling.”
This boy truly believed it’s going to rain.
This beautiful story points out that wishing is not enough. You also have to believe that you are going to succeed at whatever you are wishing for.
When it comes to finding love, a strong belief grants you the power to rise above self-doubt and past disappointments, and expect success. Without a strong belief, you block new opportunities.
A strong belief strengthens your motivation to persevere, and makes you confident enough to overcome shyness, take initiative, be assertive, and look for ways to realize your wish of having love in your life.
This story means a lot to me, and therefore, I have in my car, near the driver seat, an umbrella all around the year. Whenever I face a challenge or need to handle a difficult task, I caress the umbrella, in order to remind myself to believe that whatever I’m about to do will bring me excellent results. That’s my unusual prayer for success.
From the book Want to Find Your True Love?.
About the Author
Dorina Sasson has been trained in Louise L. Hay’s teacher training course. She is a certified teacher for “You can heal your life” study course, and “Love yourself, heal your life” workshop.